DOES TRUE LOVE EXIST???


What is true love? Does it really exist, or is it it just some cliche' that really doesn't have a lot of meaning. Love means a variety of different things depending on who you ask. If you ask someone who's been hurt a lot, or gone through relationship problems, their answer would probably be no. But if you ask a couple who has been married for 20 years, their answer would probably be yes. True love is one of those things that's very hard to define. You can see examples of it, but to describe it is a lot harder. It's a lot easier to give examples of what it is, and what it isn't.

What true love isn't
Love isn't just some words you say to someone. Love isn't a feeling or emotion. We are creatures of emotion. Our mood and emotions can be affected by the weather, what we eat, what someone says to us, what we see on tv, or any of a million small things. Love is not an emotion, or how you feel about soemone, it's much much more then that.

What is true love
Love is an action. You can say I love you to someone all you want, but if there is no action behind it, then it is meaningless. Love is a commitment. It is saying I will be there for you no matter what. It's not saying "I DO, until something better comes along, or until I no longer feel like it." It's a commitment that lasts forever, through thick or thin. There is never a plan B, or "what if." True love endures through any and every circumstance. It's you willing to give up your life for them. Whether that means by taking a bullet, or by the small things in your daily life, such as giving up something that displeases them. True Love is a life decision, a daily decision, a secondly decision. It is putting them first in everything. True love is a two way street, where both parties meet more then halfway to solve a problem. True love is being patient in everything. It is being unselfish in everything you do. True love keeps no record of being wronged. It is forgiveness. True love never gives up. True love is more then words, more then an action, more then a lifestyle. True Love is LIFE.