There are many girls who like a guy, and want to get the the guy's attention. They want the guy to long after them. And with most girls, they want what they can't have. Girls long after guys that they think are unattainable. If I were to walk through a mall by myself, I wouldn't really have any girls check me out. But if I walk through the mall with a hot girl by my side, I will get checked out by every girl that I walk by. There are so many girls that fall for guys that have girlfriends. And I believe that this in a way, helps a girl gauge where she stands as far as looks are concerned, and how she measures up against other girls.

But back to the topic at hand. Although girls like what they can't have, and they like the pursuit, or the challenge, it's not the same with guys. There are many girls who "play hard to get" to try and get a guy to pursue her, and it doesn't work. And the reason is, is that when a girl plays hard to get, she's throwing out these signs that say, "chase and puruse me." But what the guy sees is, "I'm not interested." So the guy thinks that she's not interested, so he moves on.

So if you're a girl and you're trying to get a guy to like you, don't play hard to get. Instead flirt with him, smile at him, stare at him, laugh with him. This will give the guy confidence and will put a thought in his brain that maybe you like him. This is a far more effective approach to getting the guy because guys are stupid, and we don't see the signs, and we don't like rejection, so if we think you're not interested, we will move on.